Get MAD mama! Do something about it and enjoy days out, socializing, fresh air, hair done, take advatage and embrace the family support around you, have your babybshower and make it rock! You are you and only you can do it. Your proud and worth more than shutting yourself away and letting it get the best if you. Have you spoken with your doctor about the weight gain? Its not to late to go for walks, get on a healthy eating plan, lift your spirits and gain back some of the confidence your loosing, theres still 3 months to go :) You obviously have it in you, amazing self control and focus, the drive to make a change and do it, you lost 130lbs wow! Good for you! You can do this, all that hard work is worth something, dont throw it all away. Its hard to be healthy, get exercise, lift your spirits and stay out of a depression if you isolate yourself and withdraw. really helps you to feel human and normal :) Keeping yourself shut away, isolated, can actually just make everything worse for you.
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Even though you dont want to, going out can sometimes be the best therapy! Fresh air, feeling human, getting pampered, hair done etc. She shares the humor she found in it but also the reality of the struggle to lose weight after and feeling judged. It's Kate Hudson openly talking about how she gained a ton of weight during her pregnancy. Also, this video made me laugh and feel a bit better. Your struggles with body image may run deeper and maybe my suggestion is superficial. A bit of pampering may be what you need for a boost of confidence. Again, if it's in your budget, have your hair done too. Honestly, sometimes the right outfit can make you feel so good. But if it's about your weight gain and being seen, maybe consider going to a maternity store and if it's in the budget, buying yourself an outfit that makes you feel incredible. :( But if being alone feels better to you than going to this Shower then decline the offer. I also can't imagine it feeling good to isolate yourself. I'm so sorry to hear that people have been making comments about your body changes (gain).
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How do I say no!!?įirst of all, I'm sending you a big *virtual hug*. Im newly married and will be having the first grandchild on my husband's side, so I think they want a shower. The thought of a baby shower makes me absolutely sick right now. At all times! I'm a ticking time bomb, I'll cry over my size out of the blue, a commercial on tv, EVERY post on here about weight gain and I ball my eyes out. The best thing for me is to be all by myself. I'm an emotional wreck and can't handle being around people, family or not, don't care. I need out of this baby shower! The only way I've gotten by is staying home and hiding. Thinking about it I'm crying as I write this. So an entire day of people taking pictures and commenting on my size has me absolutely freaking out. Some comments have left me crying for days. I've gained 65 pounds and only 6 months pregnant (so those of you complaining about your weight gain can shut up now!) when people see me their mouths drop and I can't leave my house without someone commenting how big I am or how much weight I've gained. Need advice! What is a polite way to tell your family you don't want a shower? This pregnancy has been super hard on me (any of you that have read previous posts know I struggle with depression and weight gain) I lost 130 pounds before I moved to this city.